Hi and welcome to Day 1 of Bloom For Love.
Over the next 5 days I will be providing you with information to help you increase your self esteem, confidence, how to end comparing yourself to others and my favourite, how to manifest love into your life.
I will be asking you to put photos up on my FB page and Instagram. I wanted to make it as fun as possible and if you do not feel confident placing photos of yourself on my social media that is ok too. You can just write on a piece of paper with the words I will instruct you to write. The most enthusiastic and creative individual will win a beautiful bunch of flowers valued at $140 to kick off the Bloom For Love Campaign.
In an encouraging setting any individual can grow, transform and renew. Think about a time at school with a teacher who nurtured you and encouraged you along the way to learning. You may have become your best by this teacher, then think of a teacher who was negative and may have not given you the encouragement you needed to learn. As a result you may have withdrawn and lost some self confidence in your abilities. So, over these 5 days I would like you to encourage each other and praise one another over social media. In this supportive setting you will be able to exceed your expectations of growth.
Let’s kick the next five days off with a bang! When there is a community of people heading in the same direction of achieving something it is so much more powerful. The individual is able to be gently encouraged and inspired to take a plunge and do something that takes them out of their comfort zone. Knowing other women are going through the same experiences and have similar past experiences is such a safe feeling too.
Why am I running this campaign?
Once I started talking to friends, strangers and family about running an online program to help build women’s self confidence, esteem and teach them how to end negative dating patterns so they can manifest the love they deserve into their lives. Well, the response was received very well. So I thought that I would run a fun campaign designed for women and that the learning was in a short amount of time.
I love working with women and if I can change someone’s life in the slightest way I will be more than satisfied. For me, I wish that I had something like this when I needed it. When I thought that I was different and quietly disliking myself, I thought I was the only girl on the earth that thought like this. Well, that is not the case after all. So, I want to now show you that loving yourself creates a far better, more blissful world than disliking yourself.
Bloom In Your Own Way
Each of the beautiful flowers in a garden are blooming in their own unique way. Society, through advertising and media has made us believe that we need to look a certain way, act a certain way, and live a certain way in order to be happy and find love.
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”
― Bernard M. Baruch
We are each born completely different, we have different hair colours, body types, skin colour, and different personalities. Think of how fun it is to meet someone that is uniquely different. They captivate us because they are unique, they are inviting us to revert back to our original state before we were conformed by society and it’s ideals.
When you begin the process of drawing back to your original state you are telling yourself that it is safe to be you. When you feel safe and happy being you, that is when you start loving yourself. And from loving yourself leads to attracting love into your life.
One act that really changed how I thought about myself was through daily meditation, so I really want you to focus on meditating once a day. I will leave some links to some guided mediations to help you along the way. If you have been mediating for a while I will leave some beautiful mediation music links so that you can guide yourself to relaxation and reconnecting.
When you realise that you are more than enough just as you are then you will stop comparing yourself to others and open yourself up to the possibilities of attracting love.
When I first started seeing myself as a miracle, I started enjoying being with myself. I enjoyed hearing my laughter, I loved my smile, I was proud of my passion for life and for helping people and animals. I started seeing how lovely my personality is and what a kind and generous person I am. All of these qualities and many more are what make me, me.
“If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.”
― Maya Angelou
When I started paying attention and valuing myself, that is when I became open to finding a man that was different from all the other men I had dated. I saw my value and my self worth for the first time and this made me eager to find someone that I now knew I deserved. When you cannot see your self worth you can stay in toxic relationships because it is all that you feel you deserve at the time.
Your Social Media Fun Task:
What I would like you to do is take a ‘selfie’ with a beautiful flower. If you do not have access to flowers that’s okay, simply find a photo or drawing of your favourite flower instead, then write on a piece of paper, ‘Today I decide to bloom for love’ and include it in your ‘selfie’. Be creative! You can declare your status on video, a drawing, picture or let your imagination get as creative as possible. Add the photo or video to my Facebook or Instagram and follow me with the tag; #Bloomforlove.
Your Growth Work:
I want you to write a letter about yourself as though your most dearest and treasured friend wrote it. I know that it may feel silly and a little too confident to do this, however, when you tap into your qualities that is when you will begin lifting the armour you have put up that has preventing you from shining.
Throughout life, we can really forget who we are and squash all of the unique and fun things that make us different from everyone else. What we forget is that those unique things in individuals are what make living so lovely. Think of a time when you were truly your best self, you let go of all the worries, anger, and you just lived in that moment in your original self.
Picture this, imagine walking around in life feeling so confident of who you are. Wherever you go you feel happy and free! The people you meet are joyful to be in your presence, they are encouraged by how freely you live. You value yourself, you trust yourself, you absolutely love all that you are. Life starts reflecting back to you this love and happiness in experiences. You land your dream job, you have financial freedom, your relationships are supportive and loving and you find the man of your dreams. All of the things that you desire in life will come from you loving yourself and feeling gratitude.
With that said, write out that letter, it is just for you to see. You do not have to put this on social media. Light a candle tonight, relax, put on some nice music and write that beautiful letter.
Wayne Dyer – I am meditation. Great for manifesting.
Leave a comment below, did writing the letter help you to see yourself in a more positive light?